Sex toys for couples and the 36 best vibrators to use with a partner in 2023

This remote-controlled prostate massager has two motors at the base and tip for double the fun and has six settings, ranging from a delicate tease to an intense pulse. One of our fave sex toys for anyone with a P-Spot, that's for sure.

LELO says: "For couples who are never shy, TIANI™ 3 offers powerful, intimate pleasure and guaranteed satisfaction. If you’re feeling daring and eager to discover an entirely new way to enjoy sex, this massager is a must try – one arm vibrates powerfully inside you and the other massages your clitoris, all while transmitting the pleasure the whole way along his length while you make love."

This suction toy delivers some spine-tingling clitoral stimulation and has all our practical requirements ticked off: whisper-quiet, fully-waterproof and USB-rechargeable. Ideal for solo play or to give a partnered session a fun twist...

This cock ring delivers the goods. It's not just durable (which comes in handy!) but feels great on the skin. With different settings and patterns, you’re able to work out what turns on both yourself and your partner, leading to lots of pleasure all-round. They slip it down to the end of their penis and when you turn it on, the motors will direct vibrations to their shaft. For people with vulvas, you can get in position so your clitoris also benefits from the vibrations (our advice: get on top!)

This love egg has 8 unique vibration modes perfect for clit and nipple stimulation. It features 2 remote functions that allow you to control it with revolutionary SenseTouch technology. Simply power up and choose from one of the two SenseTouch modes and flick your wrist for the vibrator to pulsate and buzz in a new exciting ways.

Wand vibrators are perfect toys for couples to share: you can take turns using the wand to stimulate your clitoris and other areas of your vulva and your partner can also use it on you or turn it on themselves. Wands like the Doxy can be turned up to be super powerful, if that’s what revs your engine. They're also sturdy, well-made, and lots of fun for you and your partner to discover.

Clit vibrators are a way to use sex toys as a couple (not to mention the fact they’re great for solo play, too...). Ask you partner to use this on you and stimulate your entire vulva – including your clit, obviously. With this agile toy, you can change the settings and tease your partner while you’re at it.

This naughty gift box is the perfect addition to your bedroom play. It features Je Joue’s powerful G-Spot Bullet and their cock ring Mio. So go on, treat yourself!

An app-controlled couples toy that stimulates the clitoris, G-spot, and penis all at once? Count us in. Chorus also features a squeeze remote that allows you to easily switch things up in the heat of the moment. Oh, and it's also got touch-sense receptors so your movements actually control the vibrations so you can have a fully customised experience. This toy is designed to be worn during sex and features ten vibrating modes (plus you can unlock more toy features using the We-Vibe app!). So you and your partner can enjoy all the vibrating fun you want once you’ve inserted it to your liking.

Searching for a couples toy that'll kick the intensity up a notch? You've found what you're looking for with these luxury silicone cock rings from Je Joue. The cock rings work by getting progressively tighter, allowing you to experiment with different sensations and combinations. The great thing about this set? It's perfect for anyone looking to work their way up to the most intense and prolonged orgasm possible.

Hot Octopuss says: Look, no hands! Thanks to the introduction of ATOM PLUS LUX’s versatile remote, you can now seamlessly switch between settings without ever needing to touch the toy. Its legendary design continues to deliver deep perineum stimulation as well as intense vibrations to the top of the shaft, leading to an incredible climactic experience.

New to using sex toys for couples? We’d recommend this Lovehoney couples sex toy kit, complete with vibrators, cock rings, a butt plug and anal beads. With the selection of treats, it’s perfect for exploring the different sensations and toys which work for you as a couple. The individual toys are affordable and great for experimentation, together you and your partner can explore which toys are the favourites you'd want to upgrade in future.

We just can't stop going on about how amazing this lube is: water-based, pH balanced and 100% vegan, it's a great option for you and for the planet. Lube is a pretty important element in most – if not all – sexual encounters, helping with lubrication (duh!), anal play and whenever toys are involved. Be sure to stock up!

This teensy tiny butt plug is a good intro to anal stimulation. No matter who you're having sex with, as long as everyone’s up for it, anal play can feel great. If you’re interested, here's a guide we made earlier delving into how you can approach anal play for the first time. If they have a prostate, it might be good to ask if they want to try for a p-spot orgasm

This vibrating cock ring is from one of our fave sex toy brands, Tenga, who make super high tech toys for men and other people with penises. Designed for extra clit contact during penetrative sex, it also boasts 5 speeds and 2 patterns of vibration to explore with a simple click of a button...

Lovehoney says: "Whether you're a sex toy newbie wanting to start a collection, or you want a covers-all-bases kit for a weekend away, this trove of treats will have you breezing into Monday with big smiles on your faces.

This fun, flexible vibrator is made from 100% body safe silicone and is safe for both internal and external stimulation. Since it's multi-use, it's up to you (or a partner) to decide what feels best...

Look no further than finger vibrators for affordable sex toys for couples which also happen to be brilliant and super easy to use. You slide them onto you or your partner’s finger and use them to target vibrations at the clit. Fingering just got a major revamp.

Fin is a great couples sex toy for beginners, and for such a small toy it has plenty of huge selling points. Namely: it’s approachable, it’s compact and small, and (v importantly!) it can easily be grabbed in a moment of passion. If you’re stuck for how to use it, remember that you or your partner can slip it to stimulate the other.

Join the sex tech revolution with the We-Vibe Sync! Intended for wear during penetrative sex and shaped for both G-Spot and clitoral stimulation, this smart couples sex toy lets both partners enjoy vibrations and extra stimulation. It’s remote controlled for easy use during sex and, for long-stance couples, can also be controlled via an app on your phone.